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Title: No Show Tonight.
Post by: Tom Scharpling on May 19, 2009, 03:06:02 PM
Personal situation. Not doing the show. Be back next week.

Tom.
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Post by: CurtBlair on May 19, 2009, 03:43:11 PM
Hope all is well, Tom.
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Post by: Sarah on May 19, 2009, 04:57:29 PM
Ditto.
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Post by: Martin on May 19, 2009, 05:12:58 PM
Looking forward to next week, Tom!
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Post by: Come on, Jason on May 19, 2009, 05:37:37 PM
Hope everything's ok, sir. 
Hear ya next week!
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Post by: orator on May 19, 2009, 06:55:43 PM
hope everything's ok
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Post by: Keith Whitener on May 19, 2009, 07:22:56 PM
I hope whatever it is that keeps you from the show this week plays out in the best way possible!
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Post by: nec13 on May 19, 2009, 07:24:50 PM
Tom,

I'm sure you'll get this issue sorted out. See you next week.
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Post by: DoodleJump! on May 19, 2009, 07:54:27 PM
Hope everything's ok. Best wishes to you, and look forward to next week!
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Post by: Ralph Goldenmouth on May 19, 2009, 08:01:51 PM
Seriously...hope all is well (or soon will be)
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Post by: joe s on May 19, 2009, 09:36:28 PM
Oh, Tom.
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Post by: Steve in North Hollywood on May 19, 2009, 09:39:27 PM
Hope all is well... and that Spike's not involved.
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Post by: HaroldBlvd on May 19, 2009, 09:47:40 PM
Hope all is well Tom. Hear you next week.

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Post by: snailed on May 19, 2009, 09:50:11 PM
Damn.  'twas a not so nice surprise after getting all curled up for the best show.  Hope all is well.
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Post by: LaunchCode on May 19, 2009, 10:39:58 PM
fuuuuudge

i'm barged this week...oh well, back to the oldies....
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Post by: Pidgeon on May 19, 2009, 10:51:56 PM
;__;
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Post by: Alvaro from GM on May 20, 2009, 02:17:27 AM
I hope everything works out with Dogmo.
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Post by: J. Garbage on May 20, 2009, 02:34:59 AM
My thoughts are with you and Dogmo and TT, Tom.
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Post by: snogrog on May 20, 2009, 03:25:42 AM
Oh man...bad news. I'm very sorry to hear about this Tom. My thoughts and I'm sure everybody's are with you.
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Post by: orator on May 20, 2009, 03:54:12 AM
condolences, if I understand correctly
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Post by: Sarah on May 20, 2009, 06:19:51 AM
I was so hoping the "situation" had nothing to do with Dogmo.  I'm so, so sorry, Tom. 
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Post by: masterofsparks on May 20, 2009, 06:38:24 AM
My thoughts are with you and Ms. Barberie, Tom. I've been there and it's just about the worst feeling in the world. I know it's not easy right now, but just try to remember the good times and think about how much you enriched her life (and she yours).
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Post by: Dan Telfer on May 20, 2009, 07:23:22 AM
Thoughts are with you Tom. Never posted here before, but a long time listener compelled to send good thoughts.
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Post by: DoodleJump! on May 20, 2009, 07:28:45 AM
Oh Tom- I am so sorry!
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Post by: Scot on May 20, 2009, 07:45:14 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this, Tom.
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Post by: AaronC on May 20, 2009, 08:06:12 AM
My family lost a pet this week also.  My condolences Tom. 
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Post by: Julie on May 20, 2009, 08:27:34 AM
I'm so sorry!
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Post by: Turf Out on May 20, 2009, 08:44:45 AM
My condolences Tom and TT.
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Post by: nathansmart on May 20, 2009, 09:12:40 AM
ugh - so sorry man
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Post by: Sam on May 20, 2009, 09:16:42 AM
Best wishes, Tom.  I'll be giving my two cats extra hugs and treats in tribute, and making sure I cherish our time together.
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Post by: CurtBlair on May 20, 2009, 09:26:16 AM
Losing a pet is the worst. I'm sorry, Tom.
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Post by: Kim Kelly on May 20, 2009, 09:42:31 AM
I'm so sorry for your family's loss.
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Post by: Shaggy 2 Grote on May 20, 2009, 09:58:20 AM
Really, really sorry to hear that.  Terrible news.
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Post by: Mike A.D. on May 20, 2009, 10:11:01 AM
I'm truly sorry for your loss, Tom.  Best wishes.
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Post by: jbissell on May 20, 2009, 10:16:31 AM
So sorry to hear about this.  Glad that Dogmo will live on through that awesome Tom cover and tote.
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Post by: Bryan on May 20, 2009, 10:18:22 AM
My condolences. It's a very sad thing.
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Post by: Stupornaut on May 20, 2009, 10:45:08 AM
My sincere condolences. One of my best friends has a super-cool dog that's getting on in years, so even though I've never owned one I know how you feel.
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Post by: Jersey John on May 20, 2009, 10:59:44 AM
Condolences, Tom. Having an animal companion is a very special, very meaninful thing.
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Post by: bobby. on May 20, 2009, 11:10:11 AM
She's a celebrity by now... think of everybody who's gonna be walking around, all over the world, with a bag with her face on it... she'll be the envy of every dog in doggy heaven! You were the bestest master in the whole wild world.  :)
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Post by: Big Plastic Head on May 20, 2009, 11:14:51 AM
I am so sorry, Tom. Losing a dog creates the most helpless, crushing feelings.

I will be taking Hurley on an extra long walk tonight after work....
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Post by: Ralph Goldenmouth on May 20, 2009, 11:23:49 AM
Jesus, that's terrible. I'm truly sorry.
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Post by: Wes on May 20, 2009, 11:42:24 AM
I lost a longtime pet in recent years, it was definitely rough in a way I wasn't really prepared for. Hope you're doing OK.
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Post by: SJK on May 20, 2009, 11:53:11 AM
Sorry for your loss Tom, really sad news.
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Post by: hugman on May 20, 2009, 12:11:18 PM
Truly sorry, Tom.  I send love and hugs.
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Post by: cupine on May 20, 2009, 12:13:20 PM
I'm so sorry, Tom.
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Post by: pizzaparty on May 20, 2009, 12:44:25 PM
I'm sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Pastor Josh on May 20, 2009, 01:06:20 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, Tom.  All of your fans are mourning with you. 
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Post by: mattmaher on May 20, 2009, 01:15:12 PM
My condolences, Tom. Sorry about your family's loss.
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Post by: TacoSmith on May 20, 2009, 01:22:30 PM
Dogmo will be missed for sure. Non dog people oftentimes won't understand the pain that comes with losing a dog, but it can be such a huge blow. The important thing to remember is that you rescued her and gave her a great life. Long live Dogmo!
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Post by: nec13 on May 20, 2009, 01:32:26 PM
I'm very saddened to hear about Dogmo. I know how it feels to lose a pet because it's happened to me many times. But you'll always remember the great times you had with her. Those memories will last for a lifetime.

I think all of us listeners are mourning the loss today.

Best wishes to you and yours in this time of grief Tom.

Rest In Peace, Dogmo.
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Post by: Regular Joe on May 20, 2009, 01:53:22 PM
Tom, I'm truly sorry to hear this heartbreaking news. I can honestly say I've never encountered a dog more beloved from a distance, by so many people. For what its worth, from that distance, I too will miss her.

I just found this video of the old girl in better days, but I hope it's not inappropriate or in bad taste to share it here. My apologies if so, I just think its a nice tribute.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZfbJSkV0x6M
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Post by: Stan on May 20, 2009, 01:55:24 PM
 Condolences to you and yours, Tom.
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Post by: courtney on May 20, 2009, 02:01:46 PM
Yes, how very sad.

Condolences.


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Post by: Matt on May 20, 2009, 02:08:33 PM
This is terrible. I'm deeply sorry for your loss, Tom. It's obvious to all that Dogmo meant the world to you. I'm sure she had a wonderful life, and that you were a wonderful master. My deepest condolences.
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Post by: MC Shakespeare on May 20, 2009, 02:53:24 PM
Very sad news indeed... I'm sorry for your loss Tom. 
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Post by: pscan on May 20, 2009, 02:57:31 PM
Condolences to you for the loss of the #1 FOT.

Dogmo forever!
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Post by: Trotskie on May 20, 2009, 03:09:48 PM
Very sad to hear this news.  Take care.
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Post by: Jixby Phillips on May 20, 2009, 03:16:50 PM
Dogs shouldn't be allowed to die.
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Post by: senorcorazon on May 20, 2009, 04:06:53 PM
Sorry to hear about this, Tom. I feel like a joke about feasting on human blood is needed in memory of her, but damned if I can't come up with it. Viva the memory of Dogmo! 
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Post by: fonpr on May 20, 2009, 04:17:27 PM
The things we love the most are those we know won't last.



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Post by: rock on May 20, 2009, 04:28:14 PM
Sorry to hear about Dogmo, Tom... My condolences.
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Post by: schep22 on May 20, 2009, 04:33:28 PM
Sorry to hear the sad news, Tom. 

It's rough, but you will eventually be able to think about her and smile.
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Post by: kevin_ on May 20, 2009, 04:43:50 PM
ugh.
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Post by: Sarah on May 20, 2009, 04:45:42 PM
Agreed. 

Ditto for
The things we love the most are those we know won't last.
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Post by: iAmBaronVonTito on May 20, 2009, 04:50:13 PM
for whatever reason, i find it necessary to admit that last nite i had a dream this happened.  i had a dogmo tattoo, resembling the graphic on the tote bag, and people were asking me about it.  i dont remember much else other than i found out not long after i got the tattoo that Tom lost Dogmo.  i was saddened in my dream and woke up, prepared to share this odd dream on the board in the "Best Show Dreams" thread.

unfortunately, i logged onto twitter first and was not only shocked and mortified to read this terrible news, but i find myself slightly traumatized by the circumstances.  admittedly, i cried.  yes, i cried for Dogmo.  perhaps thats weird, i dont know, but im deeply saddened by this loss, even if i merely "knew" Dogmo through Tom and the show.  i wouldnt be surprised if my tears were really for Tom, truly a stand up guy who makes my life better every week.

at any rate, my thoughts, my heart, and my sincerest condolences go out to you, Tom.
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Post by: emma on May 20, 2009, 05:21:50 PM
So sorry to hear this.
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Post by: cutout on May 20, 2009, 06:06:48 PM
Very very sad to hear about Dogmo, condolences to the Scharpling household.
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Post by: inajar on May 20, 2009, 06:07:41 PM
Very sorry Tom. Dogmo was loved by many.
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Post by: snoopywaves on May 20, 2009, 06:09:24 PM
Sorry to hear about Dogmo. I love that video on YouTube of Dogmo just doing it, even though she's just sitting there. Seems like an awesome dog.
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Post by: AllisonLeGnome on May 20, 2009, 06:18:03 PM
My condolences- I'm so sorry for your loss. Dogmo always seemed like a fantastic dog.
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Post by: todd on May 20, 2009, 06:20:11 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. May she feast on human flesh/Beneful in doggy heaven.
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Post by: A.M. Thomas on May 20, 2009, 06:21:31 PM
Sorry for your loss, Tom.
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Post by: Josh on May 20, 2009, 07:03:55 PM
I'm so sorry, Tom.
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Post by: joe on May 20, 2009, 07:12:08 PM
I'm really sorry to hear about this, Tom.  My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Post by: Jack from Arkansas on May 20, 2009, 07:42:50 PM
I am very sorry to hear this news.  It's unreal how sad it can be to lose a pet.  Bless your heart, Tom.
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Post by: LesSavyFan on May 20, 2009, 09:07:21 PM
Sorry about your loss Tom. Hugging my dog now.
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Post by: JeffreyC on May 20, 2009, 09:34:34 PM
Very sad to hear this, my condolences.

I always enjoyed hearing about Dogmo mentioned on the Best Show, she seemed like a fantastic dog.



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Post by: Dashem El Hibbee on May 20, 2009, 09:40:22 PM
My condolences, as well, Tom.
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Post by: scratchbomb on May 20, 2009, 09:45:13 PM
So sorry hear to about this. My condolences to you and Ms. Barberie at this difficult time.
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Post by: JonFromMaplewood on May 20, 2009, 10:03:42 PM
Oh no. I was away and just saw this. I am so, so sorry for your loss, Tom. 

-Jon
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Post by: LaunchCode on May 20, 2009, 10:26:34 PM
i had no idea-- pls forgive my thoughtless comment earlier

i have lost a few furry friends over the years-- but it never gets any easier to have to say goodbye again

from what you always said about her, it sounds like she had a great run

we'll miss you dogmo!!!    :'(
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Post by: stevekindof on May 20, 2009, 10:30:07 PM
Tom, I was never a pet person in general, so I could not even try to relate to how deep this is.

What I do know is the spirit and joy in your voice at the mere on-air mention of Dogmo that goes beyond the way you carry the show routinely, how inspiring he must have been to your art, and what strength I KNOW he gave you to take the dregs and factory wrapped d-bags that crossed your path with the humor we know and love you for.

And we all will be grateful to remember Dogmo as he wil be immortalized on the CD cover in this year's premium

I wish that strength harnessed in you in this sad painful moment in your life. Take whatever time you need to sort through this. I know we'll all be here when you come back.

Peace, friend.

raj
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Post by: dale on May 20, 2009, 10:51:25 PM
Our thoughts are with you Tom.
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Post by: yesno on May 20, 2009, 11:05:05 PM
Sorry, Tom.
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Post by: Come on, Jason on May 20, 2009, 11:25:47 PM
From how you've described her, Dogmo must have been the best of the best. 
I'm sorry for your loss, Tom.
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Post by: stevekindof on May 20, 2009, 11:34:17 PM
From how you've described her, Dogmo must have been the best of the best. 
I'm sorry for your loss, Tom.

To show my ignorance, I didn't even figure to check that Dogmo is a female. My apologies for that aspect of my previous post.
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Post by: HaroldBlvd on May 21, 2009, 12:09:35 AM
Funny, I was thinking of Tom and Dogmo just the other day. So sorry to hear this. Losing a beloved pet is as hard as losing any family member or friend. In some cases, harder.

Remember the good times and that you gave her a good life.


Our hearts are with you.
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Post by: Ignore Function on May 21, 2009, 12:10:34 AM
Sorry to hear about this, Tom.  My thoughts are with you.
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Post by: JBE CEO on May 21, 2009, 12:36:28 AM
Sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Andrea on May 21, 2009, 01:04:11 AM
Oh Dogmo... Tom, and the ABBA box, and the FOTs, and all of those bowls of human flesh and Beneful will miss you greatly.

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Post by: Sploops on May 21, 2009, 03:02:24 AM
So sorry to hear about this.  Dogmo lives on in the archives and in our hearts.
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Post by: Steve in North Hollywood on May 21, 2009, 05:07:02 AM
 :-[  There was an episode of Trailerpark Boys that started with a black screen and some text.  It said:

"There are some Angels that are born without wings.  We call them 'friends'."

In my family, we call those Angels "dogs."  Our hearts are with you and yours.
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Post by: Sarah on May 21, 2009, 06:36:53 AM
Oh Dogmo... Tom, and the ABBA box, and the FOTs, and all of those bowls of human flesh and Beneful will miss you greatly.

In heaven, Dogmo doesn't have to eat human flesh.
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Post by: frachse on May 21, 2009, 07:40:36 AM
I'm sorry for your loss, Tom.
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Post by: crumbum on May 21, 2009, 07:49:44 AM
Tom, I was very sorry to hear this news. It's always been clear to your listeners how much you love Dogmo.
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Post by: Steeley Chris on May 21, 2009, 07:50:04 AM
Wherever there's a dog being made to eat human flesh, instead of Beneful, Dogmo will be there.
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Post by: ben from wilmington on May 21, 2009, 11:23:45 AM
Tom, I can't imagine the hurt. I've lost a couple companions before but there's almost no way to relate these experiences. I'm so sorry. Hang in there. You have some good memories to go on.
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Post by: Pete Velcro on May 21, 2009, 03:52:24 PM
So sorry for your loss. Your passion for animals has been inspiring to me, and I imagine you're truly heartbroken. Take all the time you need, Tom. We love you.
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Post by: Blair from Glasgow on May 21, 2009, 05:33:46 PM
Haven't posted much here so far but I'm a huge fan of the show.

So sorry for your loss Tom. It's hard to lose such a close companion.

 :-[

B

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Post by: Mr San on May 22, 2009, 02:46:57 AM
Damn, that sucks  :'(

Good luck with things and my thoughts are with you.
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Post by: Jack on May 22, 2009, 03:18:56 PM
Tom, I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Post by: alisnot on May 22, 2009, 10:35:03 PM
so, so sorry for your loss tom.     
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Post by: Rasmussen on May 23, 2009, 01:58:40 PM
I'm sorry to hear about your loss, Tom.  It's been a few years since I last had a pet die, and I dread having to go through those same feelings again.  Dogmo seemed pretty awesome.  Now to go through the archives, searching for Dogmo stories.
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Post by: Chad from Oregon on May 23, 2009, 06:20:33 PM
I would like to add my voice to the chorus of condolences, Tom. My thoughts have been with you and Dogmo this week.
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Post by: Cori on May 24, 2009, 02:55:31 PM
I was horrified when I read the news. You and your family have been in my thoughts this week. Hope everyday is getting just a little bit easier.
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Post by: TRL on May 24, 2009, 03:54:18 PM
I haven't been on the board much but when I was about two years ago it was when I talked about dealing with a cat that was dying of cancer.  The cat was one of my best friends and the advice and kind words from folks on this board were incredibly helpful.

Tom, I hope you can find peace with the passing of Dogmo.  The way you spoke of Dogmo on your show makes me believe that you gave her an amazing life and treated incredibly well.  I hope you take some time to think of all of the good times that you were able to have with Dogmo. 
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Post by: mizzfair on May 25, 2009, 10:29:06 PM
Tom,
I know how much animals are a part of lives.  Sorry to hear about your loss.
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Post by: Mr. Science on May 26, 2009, 11:21:52 PM
So sorry to hear about Dogmo.

We lost Bob on the day after Xmas ( more  (http://www.boingboing.net/2008/12/29/will-sleep-for-food.html)). He was from Union County.


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Post by: slocker on May 27, 2009, 08:48:32 AM
I'm soooooooo sorry Tom. Dogmo was the bestest dog ever.


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Post by: colonel panic on May 27, 2009, 10:12:01 AM
Sorry for your loss Tom.
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Post by: Geoff Johnston on May 27, 2009, 05:22:46 PM
Tom -

So sorry to hear this.  We all know how much Dogmo meant to you (thus to us, as well).

Stay strong!

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Post by: Clint on May 27, 2009, 05:58:39 PM
My condolences, Tom.
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Post by: gedgengras on May 27, 2009, 06:09:35 PM
so sooo sorry, tom.  i know what it's like to love a bully breed, there are few things in life that are as rewarding as the affection they give us back.  you are in our thoughts (myself and murf over here)
(http://i53.photobucket.com/albums/g59/gedgengras/murfman-2.jpg)
stay strong, radio buddy.