Laurie, I suspect that no matter how hard you try you will never come off as lady-who-lives-by-herselfish as I, so I wouldn't worry too much if I were you. And if a solitary life is required in order to have a freezer full of za'atar, well, isn't it worth it? (My freezer--one of the large chest variety--by contrast is full of meat destined for my animals: way creepier.)