I need some advice.
I'm attending a wedding on August 30th. One of my best friends is getting married. Instead of asking for gifts, he and his wife-to-be have asked the guests to contribute something for the wedding buffet. I like this idea - they want to make the whole wedding a collaborative effort, I don't have to come up with some stupid gift, etc.
However, I have no idea what to bring. Any suggestions? It will be an outside event, so I'm guessing they prefer something that doesn't need (re-)heating. There will be roughly 80 people there, but everyone will bring something, so I don't have to feed them all. There will probably be an equal amount of meat eaters and vegetarians (the bride and groom are both veg). So meat is OK. And I have to transport it to the wedding, in suit and all.
Is ready-to-go stuff like bread or good cheese or smoked sausages cheating? Not putting in enough effort?