Ericka,
I am really sorry you are going through this. No recommendations, just my best thoughts.
Our one-year-old cat is sick as well. As of a few days ago, his eyes went all Marty Feldman on us, and we could not figure it out. On the heels of losing our older cat in a car accident, we are kinda wigged out. We are still getting to the bottom of it.
Keep us posted.
-Jon