Sarah -- yeah, that weirdness isn't unique to the hinterlands beyond New York, by any means. In fact, it's much more striking to me in places like the Appalachians west of DC or the cornfields just west of Chicago, where you're suddenly shocked to be somewhere so different, culturally and scenically, from where you were 90 minutes ago.
I was also wondering where the dividing line is between the New York City metropolitan area and "upstate" -- I think it's gotta be somewhere south of New Paltz, but north of Westchester and Rockland. As we just learned recently, Westchester is actually one of the five boroughs of New York City. Still, New Paltz is really far south. I'm sure you thought it had a lot more in common with metro New York than with Potsdam, right?
Beth -- I envy you. I fontasize about living where you live, whatever weirdoes might be around.