The older I get, the less I care about that sort of thing - I freaked out about it a little when I turned 30, but now I don't even think about it. Young, old, people go to shows to have fun. I do have to admit being waaaay over the Cocaine Heights scenesters at McCarren Pool shows who all look like American Apparel ads and don't know who any of the bands are, and sometimes the obviously-wealthy skate dad types can be a little irritating, but honestly I can't imagine it mattering that much.