Let me clarify: by "you," I meant men; by "us," women. Also, my second sentence was (knowingly) disingenuous. I am well aware that people have a hard time accepting transgenders as straightforwardly partaking in the sexes they have assumed later in life than most of us, although in the world in which I would prefer to be living, that would not be the case. This being so, many men apparently get the heebie-jeebies at the idea of fucking a woman and then finding out she's transgender. And I think this is dumb.
