Awww man. I guess I'll just keep my rambles to myself. Wah Wah.
Since Fredericks seemed to be elaborating on his "Fuckable When Drunk" quip, I'm wondering whether he quoted your post by mistake, WWP. Even if not, I'm sure he in no way meant to discourage you. And, if he did, I'd just ignore him if I were you.
On another note, worse than Toby Young's testicle remark, I thought, was Penn's follow-up vulgarity directed at Padma.