If you are planning on having and raising children Maplewood is the place to be, it's perfect, but there isn't much night life. If you are planning on buying a house, calculate a lot of extra cash for the high Essex country taxes, (which you can pay through your mortgage payments, but your principal goes down slower.) You also pay separately for trash pick up, sewer tax, water, and you most likely will need a car, and a train pass if you are commuting to NYC for work. South Orange has more rental properties. If you are single or a young couple holding off on kids, Jersey City offers a better location, closer to NYC and Hoboken, where there is plenty to do and you can easily volunteer at WFMU!