I didn't find Bosom Buddies at all charming, and this show "has none of the charm of Bosom Buddies."
Interestingly:
The series was conceived by Miller and Boyett as a male counterpart to their hit sitcom Laverne & Shirley. They originally pitched it as a straightforward buddy comedy done in what they described as "a sophisticated Billy Wilder kind of way." When ABC executives asked Miller and Boyett to explain what they meant by the comparison to Wilder, the producers mentioned Some Like It Hot and ABC bought the show on condition that it would include men in women's clothing, just like that movie. "We weren't there to pitch that", Miller recalled. "And they jumped on it! We drove back to the studio in the car saying, 'Oh my god, what are we gonna do? We have to do something in drag.'"
A "How Things Have Changed in the TV Sitcom World" moment
THEN: Someone who looks like Wendie Jo Sperber's Amy is able to pursue and actually become involved with one of the protagonists.
NOW: People who look like Wendie Jo Sperber simply don't exist.