I started this post just as a jumping off point for those of us on the fence as I said. It's a personal decision not worth getting angry about. It can be quite cheap indeed to live vegetarian/vegan, and in no way is it more complicated to cook vegetables than meat... (quite the contrary!) As far as going out to eat, there are many things which are vegan, and if you're not sure just ask the people who work there. They want your business.
A similar reaction of anger occurs in bikeforums.net, where bicyclists rant and rave about people not riding bikes as we do... but after a few years of riding a bike and not driving a car, well, I've just come to realize that yeah, not everyone's ready to give up their car. When someone DOES ride a bike though, I'm happy and grateful.
Very cool of Erika to post the chili recipe... that's what we should do in fact if people are unsure how to go about attempting something we're into, show them how to do it, rather than yelling about those who refuse to. <=after work, will do so myself. Polenta is an awesome, easy dish to make. more later.