I hate that I am willing to make things way harder on myself in order to not hurt someone else's feelings even when they deserve to have their feelings hurt.
I'm a president elect of a civic organization and the secretary of the club hasn't done shit in a while. she's in line to be president elect next year, but I passed her over last year and it's getting ready to happen again. She's a totally nice person, but she doesn't do shit. I ought to just kick her ass off the board, but instead I'm a pussy about it and I keep trying to get her consent to do it (basically getting her to step down) and she keeps dodging me.
And this is just one example, I do it every day. I make shit WAY harder for myself because I don't want to ask someone else to do their job or I don't want to inconvenience them (even when it's their job to do it.)
Anyone else ever deal with this? If so, what do you do? You wouldn't think a 6'3" construction guy would have a problem being assertive.