I can't bury her, either. Lately, what's really been bothering me is the way she handles her baby. She hauls him around like a burden, slung over her arm like a load of dirty laundry. I think she can't stand to see his face. Only once have I seen her hold him against her shoulder, and only once have I seen her interact with him (she flipped the ear of his elephant costume over his face on Halloween and appeared to coo at him--from a distance). My theory is that she hates the kid, that she takes his disability as a personal affront and is embarrassed by him. At least his father carries him with a little affection, and Willow seems to like him all right (Piper treats him like a doll, which is understandable in a kid her age, although I suspect she's already a cold-hearted attention hound like her mummy).